I would lie if i tell you that i don’t feel a thing whenever I see something or someone. True enough, if you see someone you don’t know, you’d probably knock off the thought of thinking further. But yes, you actually have thought of something, only that you don’t know about it. I’m still in awe with the greatness of the heart-brain coordination. It’s not necessary that you should feel something in an instant but what I’m trying to say is it’s amazing how you can easily remember certain feelings upon seeing things or people after a long time.
Try to look at your old photos. Or even your old notes. See the difference and let me know your thoughts. Enjoy.
It’s funny seeing you realize things when you’re already on it. Don’t insist your sentiments to avoid too much argument. I don’t think debating is the best way to clear out things. I guess experience is a better indicator of someone’s learning.
You must thank God for putting you in the shoes they’ve been wearing for quite some time now. With this, you’ll be able to understand how they dealt with all your preferences in times that they had no choice but to follow you. I want you to see that most of their time have been invested into this preference. They’re not regretting anything, they’re just glad to see you in a position where you can understand them now.
And upon getting into that position, do me a favor. Please think of them the way they have always thought of you.
How will she handle it this time?
It never crossed her mind that this time will come - the time when Linda started looking again at the same old pages she have gone before. It appears that the same things are taking place at a different time. Or do you think she’s overdoing things?
Linda used to sit up straight and eat on time but recently she’s been allowed to slouch on the couch and eat anywhere at any time. She’s not comfortable losing all the restrictions she’s been used to do. She wants suffocation and restrain in order to feel safe and secured.